Julian Lee Author of "Bliss of the Celibate"

William Shakespeare Talks About Orgasm:

Enjoyed no sooner
but despised straight,

Past reason hunted,
and no sooner had

Past reason hated as a swallow'd bait

On purpose laid to make the taker mad;

Mad in pursuit and in possession so;

Had, having, and in quest to have, extreme;

A bliss in proof, and proved, a very woe,

Before, a joy proposed;
behind, a dream.

All this world well knows,
yet none knows well

To shun the heaven
that leads men to this hell.

William Shakespeare

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The Eleven Best Steps to Take
 

1) Realize That You Have a Problem

You have to become aware and then convinced that you have a problem, and that the problem is causing you harm. Realize that you are being harmed by sex-indulgence, both physically and spiritually. Come to admit that you are having some difficulty overcoming it.

2) Become Convinced Of the Value of Self Control
 
You have to become intellectually firm in the conviction that sex indulgence is bad for you, and sexual self-control good for you. There are two effective ways to convince yourself.

First, become more self aware. Notice your inner state before you have an orgasm, and your inner state after losing out. ("Losing out" is a good term for male sex indulgence.) Apply your subtle awareness and you will realize that your have been changed spiritually. You have lost a kind of soul power. Even though it seems subtle to you, the change is profound and significant. If you can't sense the inner feelings yet, notice how you behave very differently after losing out. You lose interest in many things once interesting. You feel less confident, less courageous, less resilient. You are more irritable and prone to negative thoughts. You may feel a temporary sense of relaxation or relief, but you are now on a much lower plane in terms of purpose, focus, and inner power. This is in fact the "male period."

We know how much the female period affects her. Become aware of how it affects you in just the same way. Most men turn to outer obsessions and distractions to cover up the feeling of emptiness and demoralization that follows this loss. We turn immediately to drink, drugs and any possible thrill trying to fill the new void that is created. Men today are not taught the intelligent natural truth about their orgasm. So they don't have any intellectual expectation of this change. Still the negative change occurs. The male does not cognize what is happening, and this adds to his confusion. He tells himself that he should feel good; and that he feels no negative change at all. Nobody else expects him to be in a state of weakness. The female especially, who is ignorant because of male ignorance, thinks that the male should be "walking on air" after his orgasm. All expect him to be able to proceed as before. But the true inward demoralization is there. The usual weight of family, wifely, and female expectations feels heavier than before. Thus guilt and confusion is piled on top of the profound weakness he has already created. He tries to cover it up with extreme behavior and thrills. Or he gets angry and snappy. It is no wonder that men are at their worst, and do their most ignoble actions, right after orgasm.

It is really incredible today how western culture is brain-dead on this subject. One can see post-orgasm demoralization very clearly in a dog! Recently I was out walking my peppy, precocious dog and I noticed he wasn't behind me. I went back and found him. He was just sitting like a slug in the middle of the trail, not wanting to go further. His eyes looked glazed over. He is always peppy and eager on our walks. He never lies down. It was very weird. He just lay there looking pathetic. Then I noticed that he had a huge erection and had just had a big seminal discharge. (He had no doubt sniffed some female pheromones somewhere.) The fact that western culture is oblivious to all this, is just one indicator of how out-of-touch we are from Nature. If we were a wise culture, it would be expected for males to more-or-less slink away and hide for 24 hours after an orgasm.

So you, don't be unaware like this. Become keenly aware of the spiritual devastation that follows orgasm.

Secondly -- and this is the really wild thing -- note carefully what happens in your life within a day or two of orgasm. You will probably find that some kind of bad news develops. Often it will be in the first 24 hours. In many cases the news will be disturbing or even traumatic, and have to do with your personal life. This is the immediate consequence of breaking, again, the original spiritual law. If you are good at astrology, you can find out where your Pluto sits in the chart. Usually the new problem will take place quite obviously in the "house" where Pluto sits and rules. If you can become skillful at life observation, the negative outer changes will become obvious to you. Those who have been doing some restraint for a while will see them more clearly. (Those who are sunk in sexing are generally so swamped by negative conditions, the new developments have less contrast.) These two practices: subtle observation of your inner state, and observation of new outer conditions, will help convince you of the harm of sexual loss. Meanwhile, there is much literature you can read to firm up your conviction. You need to feed on this golden literature constantly!

You have entertained all kinds of false philosophies; you have been deluded by mass media and modern mass values, so you have to cut away all this wild overgrowth from the forest of your mind. To do this, keep reading materials that speak to the subject, such as the material at this website, my book "Bliss Of the Celibate," and any other material you can find. Also speak to men who are confirmed in this view. Give them your arguments and misgivings. Let them keep untying those knots in your mind. One of the karmic consequences of sexual sin, in fact, is that you are made confused and unable to see what is sitting right in front of you. But your effort at restraint will clear the way. Keep hacking down the wild weeds of misunderstanding with the sharp machete of intellect and discrimination. You have to intellectually convince yourself of the merit of this path, until you stop arguing with yourself about it.

3) Ask God For Help

Sex becomes an addiction just like any other sensual pleasure. But sex addiction is very powerful, a lot like addiction to a powerful drug, say heroin. You have to come to a point where you realize that you have a problem and that you are not winning the battle on your own. To actually get out of the claws of sex addiction, you will need divine help. The Divinity has no addictions. The Divine Being is completely addiction-free. You are going to have to get experience with a bliss far greater than sex pleasure, and this is found through contact with the Divinity. You are going to need to attract the Divine to yourself somehow, and ask Him to fight by your side. So step three involves having a heart-to-heart talk with your concept of the Divine.

The Divinity incarnates through human beings called "gurus," "saints," "Manifestations of God," Christ. This is so we can have a conceptual handle for the mind; something to address ourselves to and follow. He does this out of compassion for us, in the same way a compassionate mother would provide many ways for us to find our way home. The yogic sages say: "You use a horse to catch another horse, and a cow to catch another cow, etc." For this reason God incarnates in a human form because we humans are capable of greatest attraction to another human form. He places these Divine Incarnations generously in every clime and every period, just as a mother would leave many "care packages" and maps in a forest to help a lost child. It is not hard to find a saint or God-man if you believe in them.

So just get into your mind some Divine Form that you trust; some saint or guru or holy person. Maybe this will be based on your childhood training; maybe it will be Jesus Christ. Maybe it will be just the general term "God." You have to choose the symbol that you relate to the most; the one that you can have some faith in. Faith is very important here. You have to have faith that you can overcome your sex addiction, and that there is a transcendental being somewhere that can help.

In this step, you need to speak out loud to this transcendental being, in this manner:

"Lord, I see that I have a problem. I see that I have become addicted to sex and it is hurting me. I want to overcome this problem. I believe that I need your help in this. Please help me overcome this problem, and come back to you. Please forgive me for all of the sin I have committed by sexing. I was unaware. I didn't have good teaching. Now I see that it is destroying me. I am willing to make effort now to overcome this sin and this problem. But please help me and give me ways, through your Divine Power, to truly overcome it. Show me what I must do, how I must act, what I must learn. I have faith that you can save me and destroy this terrible addiction in me."

You have to arrive at a day where you speak in this way to the Lord of the Universe. Do in out loud, in a heartfelt and sincere way. At the same time, you need to make a significant change and show sincerity about your intentions. You need to take some actions that represent your sincere willingness to "renounce."

4) Get Rid of Self-Inflicted Sex Stimulation
 
If you have a collection of pictures, throw them out. If they are paper, shred them and burn them. Make a ceremony out of it. Say prayers and talk to your Divinity as you do it. Put a picture or form of your Deity beside you as you do it. If your material is on a computer, in digital form, erase it all with no possibility of retrieval. Don't send them somewhere else where you could later get to them. Don't encrypt them. Just erase, erase, erase. This is the only way that you can prove to the Divinity that you really mean business.

If you have memberships in porn sources, cancel them all. If you have bookmarks to porn sites, erase them all. Also, ask the Lord God to erase even the memories of those urls or addresses from your mind. If you get emails or have subscriptions, cancel them all. If you get emails that look like porn emails, just delete them as fast as you can without even registering them.

Stop watching T.V. shows or movies that are sexually stimulating. Stop renting any videos that are sexy.

If you tend to go places where you are aroused -- like certain bars or dance clubs in your town -- stop going. If you have to actually leave town and move away, that is what you should do. These are hard habits to break. If you have been going to certain places near your town, you may have to actually move away to break that habit. But this is so important, this is what you must do if necessary.

Stop hanging out with people who indulge these addictions, or look at sex material, or who talk about sexual things, or who go to places that arouse. Just break those relationships. Ignore those people. It is that important.

You need to make a clean break at this time. It is going to be difficult even when you do this. But this is the way that you attract some grace and let God know you mean business. You will still have the problem of memories; images that are in your mind. This is a deeper problem. At this time, you will have to ask God to begin to erase these from your mind. Imagine them as a wound that begins to heal, or a rut that was dug into the ground. Now things begin to grow in it; nature begins to fill it in. All of these memories are going to be erased from your mind and body. Have faith in that.

Try to get into the habit of not looking at the rear ends, hips, or breasts of females when you see them. If a female is dressed in a sexy way, avoid looking at her. If females want to get the looks of men, then let them work for it a little. Let them make an effort at modesty, and refrain from looking like cattle prods to the male libido. If more men preferred that women dress with some class, they would do it.

Finally, if you are taking any drugs or herbs that increase your sex arousal needlessly, you will have to work on getting off of those in a natural way.

 
5) Begin Doing the Mula Bandha

This is an important and profound yogic practice that you should begin doing right away, and continue doing as much as possible. You contract your anus, and the whole area from the anus to the navel, and draw it up towards your spine. This practice will give physical aid in beating sex addiction, as well as occult spiritual aid. It will also begin to improve your outer karma immediately.

By doing the Mula Bandha, you are engaging in the exact opposite practice from sexing. In sexing, you are sending energy to your lower centers. In sexing, you are enlarging the physical and astral channels that flow downward in the lower centers. With the Mula Bandha, you begin doing the opposite thing. You begin to contract the physical and astral channels below. You begin to lift the creative energy back up and arrest its downward flow, both physically and astrally.

By sexing you have engorged your lower organs and chakras, sending inordinate energy down there for a long time. So now you need to do the opposite, and for a long time. Doing the Mula Bandha is doing the opposite.

You can do the Mula Bandha any time, anywhere. You can do it both sitting and standing. The first time you do it, you should be sitting. You basically tighten your anal sphincter muscles, just like you when you are trying to avoid going pee, or avoiding defecation. You just pull in as firmly as you can, for as long as you can.

The first time you do this may be a strange or amazing experience. You may experience a kind of "electrical charge" in your mind, sort of putting you into a strange, exhilarated state while doing it. It may even seem like a kind of mind jolt. Your mind seems to spin. This is because you are withdrawing a huge amount of energy from that area back up to your brain and higher chakras. If you do it on a daily basis and cut down on sexing, the jolt will become less great. To feel this strange charge in your mind during the Mula Bandha is a good sign. Imagine, as you pull up, that you are withdrawing all energy up your spine and out the top of your head. Imagine that your sex desire is now being "flown as a kite" -- on a string up your spine and out through your head. Imagine that you are offering that sex energy up as an offering to the Deity, like fruit laid out on a beautiful plate. Inwardly say, "Here, I give this to you. It is all for you. Whatever enjoyment could be mine, I now give it to You. I don't want it anymore. I prefer You to that. Take it, and please do with it what You will." When you do this bandha, speak inwardly to the Divinity in that manner.

It may sound childlike to address the Deity simply and sincerely. But to be childlike is a great advantage in dealing with God. The Deity is "more human" that we are, and responds to sincerity immediately. The Deity is the very source of personality. The very existence of your own "personality" springs from His. A mystic once said: "He Who made the ears, shall He not hear?" Know that God hears your sincere words and thoughts just like the kindest Mother, and He will be very impressed with your efforts in this. Another saying of the mystics is: "Every time you take one step toward God, He takes a thousand steps toward you." He will cover the distance for you.

After you get used to doing it, get better and better at it. Pull more steadily, firmly, and continuously. Pull only moderately at the beginning so that you don't pull or pop anything down there. If you overdo it and try to contract too strongly at first, you could create a hemorrhoid. (This is more of a possibility when holding in a bellyful of air -- another yogic practice. But to be on the safe side, be gentle and don't overdo it at the beginning.) At first you will only be able to do it for a moment. With time you will be able to stay pulling for longer periods. Get so you can stay pulled up like that for a minute, two minutes, five, etc. Do it when you're walking, in the car, at the office -- and especially when you are losing control of your arousal.

By doing the Mula Bandha you actually begin to "drain the swamp" of your sin and bad karma. You are draining the ignorant and dualistic astral karma that has been seeping down there. You have deposited a great quantity of sin and dark energy there, now you are draining the old, and sending the new, up to God to burn and transmute. By doing this a lot you can begin to see positive changes in your external world. You are turning back from sin; shrinking your sexual organ instead of enlarging it. You are going back to the state of childhood.

Wherever your planet Pluto lies -- in whatever astrological house -- you will have generated much stress, turmoil, and trauma there by sexing. Now as you do the Mula Bandha, you will begin to see these troubles and toils drain away from that astrological house. For example, maybe you live where Pluto is in your Third House. You probably have problems with communications, receive threatening letters. You have many hard drive crashes, get hacked, have viruses -- it ruins your business, etc. With a 3rd House Pluto you may even develop problems seeing, hearing, or getting around. But now by doing the Mula Bandha these problems will dry up. Or maybe you have Pluto in 8th, so you are always getting involved the lawsuits, the tax collector, and life-and-death survival struggles. These problems will begin to fade.

By doing the Mula Bandha you will stop having that roiling feeling of fullness, rawness, or aliveness down in your sex organ. Your sex organ will stop bothering you; stop "calling" to you. Instead of feeling like an open wound that bleeds, the area will come to feel very cool and quiet. This is what you want. Eventually, if you stop entertaining sex thoughts in your mind, your sex organ will cease generating sperm. Then all of that energy will be directly sublimated to other centers of your body and to your mind. Your mind will begin to become very powerful.

Women will benefit from this practice in the same way as men.

With the Mula Bandha you are beginning to master the prana in your body; the subtle energy beneath grosser physical forms. Your sexual energy is like the Master Bank Account of prana. Before, you were like an open gusher, spilling it on the ground as complete waste. Now you are going to take charge of it, learn to direct it, and let it do great things for you. All yogis who tread the highest path of God Realization, incidentally, must master this bandha. So you will be getting free of sex damage, plus building your launch pad for spiritual epiphanies.

6) Cut Down on Caffeine

The less caffeine you drink, the less horny you will feel, especially at night. Don't drink "decaf" -- it's like a stronger version. (The homeopathic principle kicks in, where a more subtle dilution of a substance acts in a more profound way.) If you are a coffee drinker, begin cutting down the number of cups, and only drink it in the morning. Your goal should be to eventually get completely off caffeine or any similar stimulant. These stimulate the lower chakras and make you stay "horny."

7) Try to Spend Less Time Around Females
 
This one is difficult for a married man, or one with daughters around. But if you really want to become firm, you have to pursue this one to the extent possible.

The ideal situation for a married man is to sleep in a bed separate from his wife. But only the most enlightened and educated wives can understand this and not take offense. If you have daughters or female relatives, you should keep some distance from them and not be around them intimately. Even though a normal father feels no attraction to his daughters, the human body is the human body. It tends to have its own agenda. Any female body around you will be having some degree of subconscious impact on your male body.

Try to cultivate male relationships. Hang out with men instead of women. As you overcome sex addiction, this will become natural to do. You will begin to see other males in the way you did when you were a boy -- as actually more attractive and interesting as people. Men prefer to hang out with women only because they are heavily sexualized and they enjoy relating to others only through that sex charge. As you become restrained, you will notice again that men are heroic and intelligent and you will prefer to be with them.

When dealing with females in the public realm, try to keep some traditional decorum and avoid "easy familiarity" with them. My habit is to avoid looking at females in public altogether, especially if they are badly dressed. I say "hello" only when necessary and only when they are decently dressed. I avoid talking to women at all unless we have been properly introduced. Even then I won't talk to her if she is badly dressed. This is the old culture of our ancestors, and worth reviving again. Young men today are completely at the mercy of the female and are continually being sexually harassed by her ways of dressing and acting. It used to be that the culture gave some protection to young men. Again, when you encounter females dressed in provocative ways -- without any respect for the male sex nature -- just avoid looking at them. Don't allow them to sexually harass you.

If you are one of my female readers, you can of course apply this to yourself by cutting back on your contact with men. Women become coarse by too much contact with men, and lose the female culture.

8) Learn About Meditation and Cultivate Devotion

This is the great secret weapon against sex addiction. This is the Cadillac technique, which will surely free you of all sin and all sex addiction. What happens in meditation is that you experience a joy that is much higher than the thrill of orgasm, though it is usually more subtle. With time you come to prefer the bliss of meditation to the coarser bliss of sex orgasm. Then later you will become aware that the lower thrill of sex pollutes you in such a way that you are unable to contact the finer bliss of meditation. Overcoming sex addiction is like developing higher, more refined tastes. Meditation will give you the ultimate thrill, beyond compare with sex. It will also give you a lot of merit and attract grace, which will give you further ammunition against all addictions, including sex addiction.

I say "learn about" meditation, because it is good for you to have some understanding, some respect, and some reverence for it before you launch into it. The more respect and reverence you have for it before hand, the more you will finally get out of it. The subject of meditation is too big for this section, and will be addressed elsewhere and in other of my books such as "Gifts Of The Mystic." But here are a few points about meditation that you should ponder so that you begin having a proper respect for it.:

1) Meditation is the ultimate form of prayer.

2) In meditation you finally give your All to the Lord, because you give to Him your very mind, and that is your all-and-all. In meditation you work toward a state of full surrender to the transcendental Lord.

3) In meditation you still your thoughts, which means you clear out all false idols that are distracting your attention from the Divinity. Our thoughts are our false idols and are full of worldly desires and impressions. In normal consciousness we are, in a sense, worshiping our thoughts. We chase after them endlessly. But the Ultimate God is beyond thought. The ultimate Lord is beyond conceptualizations.

4) God is ultimate stillness beyond vibration. Out of the vibrationless comes all vibration and phenomena. When you still your mind, therefore, you come close to God and come to know His nature.

5) Sages who meditated well found the creative source within. They tried to describe its nature as "Being, Consciousness and Bliss." In meditation we come into contact with His pure Being, infinite consciousness, and ineffable bliss. By contacting that, we ourselves come to be more like that. We ourselves come to be more and more divine, as his true sons should be. It is a simple law that we become like whatever we associate with.

6) In meditation you find true fulfillment for the mind. You find a pleasure that is beyond compare with all earthly thrills, preoccupations, and pleasures. This breaks the hold of all addictions over you, including sex addiction.

"Devotion" is mentioned as part of this last step. To learn more about devotion go to bhakti-yoga.info, or get my book "Gifts Of The Mystic." In short, if you cultivate an attitude of devotion toward your chosen deity, you will make much greater progress in sex purification and in meditation. Devotion is an emotional attitude of faith, desire, trust, and longing. We cultivate these attitudes toward things of the world, and toward women, our mothers, etc. But in spiritual devotion we cultivate that attitude toward our chosen Deity, whether this is Christ, our guru, Krisna, or some other holy saint. Devotion is really the greatest secret of the higher spiritual life. It is a great mystery and a great Gift. If you feel that you don't have devotion, then you can pray to your guru or deity and ask Him/Her to give you greater devotion. As you turn sincerely to a higher divine life, you will have experiences of God. One of the experiences of God is deep peace and subtle bliss. You will have other proofs of his presence in your life. When you have these experiences, you are getting some good reasons to have devotion to God. You will begin to feel gratitude and devotion naturally. Thus a true feeling of devotion will grow through your actual experiences with the Divine Father. Until then, just a pinch of faith will do to start.

9) Analyze the Female
 
This is an old practice used by the Hindu and Buddhist sages to help you see past the sexual allure of the female. There are many ways you can "analyze the female" until her bewitching impact just dies.

Realize how her youth gives her a fleeting allure; she'll only be that way a short time. In her springtime nature tries to get some new babies coming along, by making her look that way so that she can draw in foolish males. The world has plenty enough babies, and the thrill of sex with her will come and go, and leave you wasted. Visualize how much she'll sap your bank account, probably sue you some day, and rob you of both material and occult wealth. All for that pretty face that fades so fast. See her as a pretty flower that is poisonous. Here are some examples of how to analyze the female:

(Note: In the material below "she," and "her" refer to "Woman" in the abstract. Not necessarily the  personal  individual.)

1) Age her in your mind. Imagine what her face will look in the future. Picture her at 40, 50, 60, and so on. Imagine how much less sexy she'll be as an old hag. Think how she'll look as her eyes sink in a little, her cheeks sag, etc. Visualize her rear when it sags and gets flat; her breasts when they deflate and droop. She'll start stinking, and you'll have to smell that strong chemical she uses to cover it up. She's headed for death. She's a sure case of "bait and switch." See her laid out in the coffin some day. Realize that's where her body's heading. It can help a great deal if you can see a photo of an older female relative, such as her mother or a sister. The older the better. You'll be able to get a good sense of what she'll look like when she's older. Even ten years of age will take away most of the charm of a female in her teens or twenties. Think that this is what she is already, now.

2) Ponder why her red lips make you attracted, and why she likes to make her lips red: a) it conveys to your body that she is healthy and could bear strong young, b) Red lips suggest she is in a fit of passion (like a cat in heat) and feeling "sexy," the blood rushing to her face and lips.

 c) She wants to make you aware of her lips up above so that she can later get you interested in her less attractive "lips down below." You could only get interested in those in a state of madness; that is why she sets before you her upper lips. Framed by a pretty face,  with cute talk coming from them, they seem interesting. But they are just two worms on a vicious hook. She paints her lips because she wants you really aware of "lips," to do that bait-and-switch on you.

3) Pink cheeks are the same. They make you think she has good circulation and is in good health, thus to make babies. Flush cheeks imply she is pure and sensitive; that she is capable of blushing, which makes you feel she is pure and innocent like a child. She knows you are attracted to that purity, so she paints on fake "blush" to make herself seem healthy; and innocent enough to blush. Before the proliferation of makeup, girls who wanted to attract used to pinch their cheeks to redden them, all for the same reasons of psycho-genetic manipulation of the gullible male. Even old women are trying to scam you with rouged up cheeks! (Men are in such a pathetic state today, even the driest old prunes think they can pull you.) Even if her blush is real, soon she'll lose her innocence, become hard and jaded, and pursue of pleasure, fame, money. Her desires will be insatiable. Her innocence will soon be lost. Then you won't find her attractive. Right: "Leveling the Playing Field" Women refuse to deal with men without the using advantages of sexual titillation and the techniques of whoredom. Notice all that red.

See the "feminine force"?

4) Her rounded rear and legs say: She has some fat in her to get through the winter; she can bear and feed some young 'uns. All her rounded parts are just fat deposits that tell your mammalian mind that she is fit to bear young and get through a winter and nurse them. That's why your body gets a charge out of it. Your body is set on stupid mode when it sees her rounded fatty deposits.

5) Why has the female smeared that glistening gloss all over her lips? To make them seem wet, like the lips down below. Also it brazenly suggests semen, so she is conveying to you the sodomy sin which hooks men like fish on a jagged hook. See how awful she is? So brazenly she tries to pull you down to the lowest sexual ideas! Why has she made her nails long and red? To make you think of piercing, and blood. The female will do anything she can do to make you think subconsciously of copulation, blood, oral sex, and your semen. The model to the left is demonstrating, in this odd picture, the savvy of feminine wiles and subliminals.

Is there any point to this photo but one?

The photo above was taken from a mainstream website offering free backgrounds and screensavers, and not a porn site. Pornographic ideas and terms are constantly bubbling up into mainstream culture now. The upraised finger here is supposed to suggest the phallus; the open mouth is meant to suggest oral sex (of course), and the goo is an obvious suggestion of semen. This kind of subliminal stuff is all through our culture now, and the female is expert at it.

Suggestions, Suggestions What's this all about? Why must we see this one eat? Subliminals about oral sex, her lips, her tongue, the opening an orifice, etc. Pretty lowdown nasty, eh?

Or black nails and lips? She wants you to know she is wicked; she is open to evil. See how easy it is to correctly deconstruct the female? It's all really obvious, it's embarrassing. She should be so embarrassed. Why does she wear high heels? Besides trying to fake the stature of a man, it makes her rear end sashay in a "sexy" (lust-inducing) way when she walks. Just like female fish waggle things about when trying to attract the male. 6) Realize her body is full of the various cruds that makes up the human body (this is a favorite of the Asian sages). Excrement is sitting in her, all sorts of fatty deposits, weird impurities and drugs, gristle and bone, etc.

She has bacteria in her mouth, and when she wakes up it stinks. Even if she seems pretty, there is even more putrid bacteria in her lower orifices. She farts and defecates just like any animal. Try to visualize her skeleton beneath the skin, muscle, fat and fascia. See, she's not really a turn-on after all.

7) When you have the misfortune to see a media-slut staring at you from the cover of a supermarket magazine, or in some photo or video, it can be especially fun to deconstruct her because she is so obvious. Why does she wear that tossled-haired style? She wants to suggest to you that she has just climbed out of her bed; that you are right in her intimate quarters, that she just came from a romp in bed. Why does she wear underthings like slips as outer clothes? To make you feel that she is already undressed in front of you.

Why is the little tart showing us her tongue, or even sticking it out? Women like to show their tongues to subconsciously suggest to you her similar smooth epithelial  tissues down below -- the wet ones. She also does it to suggest the possibility of her tongue licking your member. which is a fetish of many males in the Kali Yuga. She how incredibly obvious the female is? Pretty disgusting, eh? Why is another parting her mouth slightly and showing a bit of her tongue? Same reason. (Check it out. You'll find woman doing this in photos frequently.)

What's with the tongue. Is she having a tick? Cleaning her teeth? No, it's to remind you of the same soft epithelial tissue down below, and to suggest licking your member. This one has dispensed with the 'food' subterfuge and simply sticks out her tongue like a lizard. Notice the sly wink, too. Is this banal and obvious, or what?

Why does J. Lopez and B. Spears pump and grind their pelvis that way? It's obviously sexual motion; she is simulating copulation. Why is she sitting with her legs spread out that way? Doesn't she know it is crude, unladylike, and oh so obvious? Men rarely spread their legs in photos. She is "doing the Flynt" for us. How gross! (It's incredible how many actresses have done "the Flynt" for the camera.) Why is the media-whore bending down as if she is on all fours? She wants you to think of doing the "doggy style" thing. Geez. How low can she get? Why is she holding that phallic object near her mouth? Obvious. Why does the actress from "Sex In The City" wear a dress with the Empire State Building emblazoned up across her front. Phallic suggestions again. Why does she wear that barbaric piercing? It suggests "I've been pierced," or "I can be pierced." Why is her waistline so low? Obvious -- she is tempting you, teasing you by getting close showing her absurd pubiscus. And so on and so forth.

Her banal descent to the anal.

Nowadays many men have fallen so far into perversion they are indulging in anal sex, which harms their generative organ and desecrates the creative material. Only a heavily sickened mind is not repelled by the anus of the female. But women are always obliging in sin. Now that demented men view the female excretory organ as a sexual object, women are placing tatooes above their anuses, as if providing landing markings so near sightened perverts know where to aim. She keeps lowering her waistline and trying to tempt these cretins with her stinky place.

Get to be an expert at deconstructing female attractions in this way. Analyze her until you see she is just an ignorant pile of bones, with no purpose but to aggrandize herself, and divest you of your creative power. It will help a lot.

You can add to this the fact that she is probably vainer than a super model, takes for granted that you are a dog she can lead around on a string, is morally compromised, ethically dangerous, culturally bankrupt, philosophically impaired, seething with desires for fame and power, and about as deep as an "Archie" comic book. She will leave you as soon as she gets bored, or sees a cuter face, or a bigger wallet.

Women with a lust problem can apply these same ideas to deconstructing the male body if they please. All this gives you vairagya, or dispassion. Vairagya (dispassion) is the opposite of passion. One needs vairagya toward the female in order to get free of sex addiction. One needs vairagya toward all worldly thrills in order to get samadhi and enlightenment. Getting this dispassion toward the female breaks the Gordian knot of addiction to all the world. With vairagya toward the female, you can get vairagya toward all false pleasures. So the above exercises are a very great work.

Doggy Hints What's this? Is Natalie falling over?  No, this is a popular pose by female media-hos to suggest doggy sex. Notice how they don't show men taking this pose. (At least, not yet.)

10) Understand Your Own Psychology;
Know Your Special Vulnerability "Buttons"

11) Connect with Men Who Practice Moral Restraint and Celibacy
Whatever and whoever you hang out with, you become like that. It happens in imperceptible ways, and even on a subtle plane. Associations and environment are a stronger influence than willpower for most. Develop a cadre of enlightened men for friends. You can certainly write me here at celibacy.info. (letters "at" celibacy.info) Talk about these ideals with other men who you feel can handle it. Socialize especially with any men who are consciously strong in this area, and avoid men who don't get it. When I hear men telling dirty jokes, I excuse myself or turn and talk to someone else. Avoid men who think the male is destined to be the thrall of woman, and who think it is an honor to lose their power and divinity for a moment of crass pleasure. Don't even try to argue with them. Direct them to www.celibacy.info or other good resources. Then they can be REALLY "cutting edge."

This site, and material like this, represents the only real revolution occurring on the planet. It represents spiritual revolution, material revolution, and social revolution at its highest. Anything else going on in the world today, or on the internet, is small potatoes by comparison. That is what I say. That is what I say, friend. This is the cutting edge of the cutting edge. Yet this knowledge will never lose its power or creative efficacy.

That's all for now.

Keep it in! Become a sage. Become great.

Blessings and many saints for our nation,
Julian Lee

CELIBACY.INFO

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Some observations about men and women:
How the male sexual addiction to the female changes everything in society.
How women change, and how society changes, when men become their sexual slaves.
(The hubris and self-absorption of today's females; their pathetic male worshippers, how it is damaging all levels of society. Test Question: How did the female end up worshipping herself?)

Rampant Sexual Molestation of the Hapless Visually-Oriented Male:
Why are Britney Spears and Madonna not in prison yet for sexually molesting so many young and vulnerable males, as well as corrupting so many young children?

 

PLEASE NOTE: THIS MATERIAL IS WRITTEN FROM THE MALE SEXUAL PERSPECTIVE AND INTENDED FOR A MALE AUDIENCE

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